The Authors of Writes of Passage

The Authors of Writes of Passage

Monday, May 14, 2012

No Right Way ... No Easy Way


"No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader. No surprise in the writer, no surprise in the reader." -- Robert Frost
I believe Mr. Frost had writers like me in mind when he said that.

Although I can't recall a time when I've cried while I'm writing (I think I'm concentrating too hard on getting the words down), I have been known to cry when I've read over a scene later. Two books have caused me to weep crocodile tears when I reached "The End": The Forgiving Hour because it was God's book more than mine, and I was amazed at what He'd done with my offering. And Ribbon of Years because Miriam, the protagonist, is the woman of faith I hope to emulate throughout my life.

However, I don't think crying over our own work is what's important or even what Mr. Frost meant. I think it's the tears of life that a writer requires. Life comes with laughter and heartache, good times and bad times, mountain top highs and dark valley lows. The novelist must experience them all. No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader.

As a bonafide seat-of-the-pants writer, I'm surprised all the time by what direction my characters take me. One reason I'm an NOP (no outline person) is because if I do a detailed plot outline so that I know the whole story including the ending, I no longer want to write it. If I already know the ending, there will be no surprise waiting for me. So then I want to come up with another story, one that will surprise me when I reach the end. No surprise in the writer, no surprise in the reader.

Whenever I speak to aspiring writers, I tell them, "There is no 'right way' to write a novel. You have to try everything until you find what works for you." I have good friends who, when they explain their writing process, make me want to bang my head on the desk and babble nonsensically. My creativity entirely shuts down at the methods they share. I have learned to be mostly content with the way I was wired to create, even though I sometimes wish there was an easier way. But the truth is, just as there is no "right way" to write a novel, there also is no "easy way" to write a novel.

I am getting close to the halfway point in my current manuscript. Still lots of surprises ahead of me, and in this particular story, more laughter than tears. I am having a great deal of fun torturing my hero with a strong-willed heroine who likes to collect strays.

Now I'd better get this posted so I can get back to writing and discover what happens next.

~robin

P.S. Just for fun, here are a couple of photos from Mother's Day brunch at my daughter Micki's home. The first is of the two of us. The other is of the flower pots she gave to her mom (moi), her stepmom, and her mother-in-law.





11 comments:

  1. Great post, Robin. I agree that there's no right or wrong way to write. We're all uniquely 'wired' and must find what fits each of us!

    Love those gorgeous pots of flowers, and the picture of you and your daughter, too. :)

    To our regular Writes of Passage readers: Rosie is unable to leave messages as she is continuing to have bad headaches and being on the computer makes them worse. I know she would appreciate continued prayers.

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  2. I've said this before, but this post is EXACTLY what I needed to read today, dear Robin. God is sooo amazing how He uses you ladies on this blog to reach us in so many ways! I've been feeling very frustrated lately (and frankly--a little overwhelmed too) with my writing--trying to remember ALL the wonderful info. I've learned at conferences and through books. But, trying to focus on "rules" really stifles my creativity and limits my productivity (sheesh, and I'm not even pubbed yet and am feeling this way, LOL). So...your words today really reassured and uplifted me--Thank You! ~ Such a cute photo of you and Micki! And those flowers are beautiful. ~ Continued prayers for our Rosie, and HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our Catherine today!!! ~ Hugs, Patti Jo

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  3. Thanks for sharing the prayer need, Judy. Rosie, praying for you.

    Patti Jo, so glad the post helped you. And Happy Birthday, Catherine. My birthday was last week. May birthdays are the best.

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  4. Praying for Rosie!
    Happy Birthday, Catherine!
    Happy Belated Birthday, Robin!

    The books you mentioned are 2 of my faves! I received a A GC for Mother's Day so am downloading some "Robin" books! Yippee

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  5. Thanks so much, Jackie, for both the birthday wishes and for using your gift certificate to get some of my books. Bless you.

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  6. BELATED Birthday greetings Robin!!!

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  7. Thank you, ladies! Been a crazy day here between working and then Erik and I heading to Opry Mills for some milling about and birthday supper :-) You are such a special bunch of people!

    Happy belated birthday, Robin. I agree, May birthdays are the best! I hope your's was wonderful :-D

    Continued prayers for Rosie. You take care of yourself and come back when you're able...but no stressing out about not getting to chat with us yet. You're in our hearts, minds, and prayers!

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  8. Thank you for this post, Robin!
    Love the picture of you and Micki and that you were able to be together.
    Did I miss your birthday? Even on fb? Happy belated birthday, Robin!
    Hugs!

    Judy, thank you for the update on Rosie. Praying

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  9. Thanks, all, for the birthday greetings. It's okay that you missed it. I didn't announce it in advance.

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  10. What a beautiful picture of you and your daughter, you look so much alike! Gorgeous flowers too.
    I see that you had a wonderful Mother's Day! :-)

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  11. Thanks much, Veronica. I love it when people tell me I look like my daughters because I think they're so pretty. Yes, Mother's Day was lovely.

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